March 25, 2007

Day 41
Sunday, almost 6 weeks, and we have a bit of a routine going. There is spring in the air, and it is good to be able to enjoy the change of seasons. Spring is the rebirth after winter, and reflects my feelings today somehow. I went to church to get a bit of a lift, and of course got exactly what I needed to hear. In a nut shell, to be a good friend you need to be able to accept friendship when you need it. Thank- you to my friends and family, I'm honoured to be among you.
I took Glenn outside today. When I got to the hospital, the nurse said he was feeling sad, so I went in to see him, and decided that today was a day off. I tidied him up and didn't worry about the splints, just took him for a walk. As we left his room, the nurse said, "Go outside". I was going to ask if it would be OK to do that, so when she said that we were off. I took him out the 15th Ave. entrance as there is less traffic and no smokers out there. It also is on the south side of the building, so we were in the sun, and out of the breeze, although it wafted through enough to be refreshing. We just sat outside and enjoyed the birds, dogs barking, kids yelling in the playground a ways away, and generally took a welcome break from the hospital air. Glenn got something in his eye, so he took off his glasses and wiped his eye! I felt amazed at how much fine motor control his left hand has. I'm sure his right hand will come along too. There is more movement in his right leg, so that side is just taking its time. I have to be more patient, and let him heal on his own time. I'm anxious to have him back though, so I'm having trouble with that.
Jackie, Dale and Des came to see Glenn around supper, so after visiting hours, we went for supper. It was late, and my Greek salad gave me some grief through the night, but it was a nice end to a peaceful day. Taking care of yourself when your partner is in such distress is a hard thing to remember to do. Spiritually, physically, one goes with the other. I backed off the therapy for Glenn, and tried to just heal the spirit within both of us. I feel better for it, and I hope Glenn does too.
I'm going for lunch with some of the friends I was referring to before. I realize I need to let people other than myself start to help Glenn now. He is needing the support more , so we will start something and see how he does. Again, thanks for your love, concern and support, this would be a lonely journey without them.
Louise