Day 99 & 100
Holy smoke, that one went by me. 100 days ago life changed for the Mitchell crew, and has affected a fair circle of people along the way. It has been difficult, scary, and not a little frustrating, but we are not sinking.
Glenn likes to talk in phrases, so word by word we figure out what he's saying. I still need the board, but when I know what he's trying to say, it is there, just a bit slurred. He responds verbally more readily too, so it is coming back to him.
We are going to have a home visit tomorrow. It will be very emotional for all of us, so we will try to keep it as low key as possible. This is an assessment of our house, to see how easily Glenn could maneuver etc. We also need the input as to access, so it will be very informative. I'll find out more today, but I think the scheduling has been done.
In OT on Wednesday, Glenn was working on rolling himself over, and was pretty close to getting there. That's the first time I've seen him do that on his own, so there is definitely improvement there. I've been asked by a few people if he can walk yet, and the short answer is no. In therapy with support from a few people, he takes steps, but his balance and strength is only good for sitting up on his own, and he needs help to do that. He is still pretty helpless in many ways, but when you think how far he has come, he's doing very well. I have to keep reminding myself that it all takes time. The earliest we can expect would be the 6 month mark, as the healing will take that long at least, and more likely will take the next few years. Yes years, but it will get better and is getting better. I think everyone wants to be reassured, and I do too, that we will have Glenn back soon, but it will take more time, so be patient, and keep up your support of us, we are in this for the long haul.
Thanks for your comments and it is always good to have visitors.
'Til next time,
Louise
1 comment:
All the best for the home visit! I'll be thinking of all of you. Like Myrna said to Glenn when he first was sick even Cliff is praying for him and his family. You have to know my know our dad to appreciate that statement and I know Louise and Glenn understand what I'm saying. Cliff was one of Glenn's biggest fans. In my heart Cliff and Vernice have been watching and doing what they can to encourage Glenn's healing so he can go home to Louise. Its going to happen. Maybe not on two feet yet but most definitely there in his body, his mind and his undaunting spirit.
I love and respect you two and your family so much.
Tomorrow is a new day! With each new day there are signs of strength, healing and determination.
Perspective teaches us to value what you have not what you wish for and want. That lesson has been learned by all of us who have followed your reports and try to support you. Thank you for allowing us to be part of yor journey.
Love, M.
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